When is Treatment Appropriate?

So they have "treatment programs" for calling someone a name now?

I refer to this juvenile, overblown incident where a star from the TV show "Grey's Anatomy" called someone else a faggot.

While I don't condone hate toward homosexuals, I have to shake my head that society now has "treatment programs" for people who call homosexuals derogatory names, but that same society denies there is anything wrong with a man who would sodomize another man and says that behavior is normal, natural and healthy.